Monday, April 28, 2014

Personal Aspects of Holistic Wellness


Why is it Important for Health and Wellness Professionals to Develop Psychologically, Physical and Spiritual.

Spiritual, Physical and Psychological wellness is important development for those in the health profession I believe because it is the old saying of “practice what you preach” (Author Unknown).  How can your generally give a person advice or administer medicine when you really can’t understand where the pain is really coming from?  If a practitioner understands the true connection of mind, body and spirit then they will be able to prescribe you with the right medicines that will free you from your illness.  The prescription may not come in a pill or bottle but a major change of mind from negativity to positive affirmations, bitterness to love and release of hurt and unforgiveness and resentment to loving kindness and hope.  The body can hurt but a renewed mind and path of enlightenment can heal you physically from the inside out.  As we have studied and learned, strength of mind and heart brings about feel good emotions and oxytocin in the brain, serotonin levels increase and your mental capacity enlarges. 

To achieve physical, mental and spiritual wellness for myself requires commitment, love for self, others and a mindset of determination to have some follow through to reach my wellness goals.  I need to remove the hurts of the past and forgive those you have hurt me and those I have hurt.  I must seek balance and healthy personal goals.  Be selfless enough to meet the needs of others without losing self. Gain mental balance and when things get to emotionally out of control STOP, pray, meditate and know that things will work for my good and the good of those I love.

Assessing My Wholeness (Physical, Spiritual and Psychological Well-Being

Throughout this course, I have been discovering better methods of meditational exercises, making time to visual clear my mind and in cooperate healthier lifestyle choices.  Currently I rate my physical wellness at a 7 out of ten.  At the beginning of the course I rated it a five but since then, I have actively attended exercise classes and established a 30 minute session of outside walking five days a week.  It was hard at first but my body and mind have started to thirst for the fresh air and freedom I feel as my body pushes against the wind and the energy and joy I gain after I have completed my walking journey.  Spiritually, I am strong and gain knowledge and power from my personal source of strength in my belief in God and His holy word the Bible.  I have begun to commit scripture to heart and use them as my source of meditation and mantra.  A favorite is: Wherefore my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath (King James Version, James 1:19).  This helps me spiritually and holistically know that    I need to allow others to be heard, be wise in my words, stop trying to solve the world’s problems or be quick to give useless meaningless advice. 

Next I must refuse to allow angry thoughts that result in angry behaviors.   Resist negative emotions and issues, never allow hurt to fester or even entertain its destructive power or influence in my life! So I rate my spiritual growth at a 7.5.   I am also learning to take every experience as something that can have a positive message and life lesson to help others. My goal is to continue to study and learn to put into action among my fellow man acts of kindness, love, peaceable conversation and be a person who gives without the thought of receiving something in return. Psychologically my score is still a six.  Although I am striving to be mentally stronger and gain more knowledge each day about this world, my place in it, my responsibilities to others and understand are connectivity to each other, I still struggle with how to compartmentalize these areas/thought without over thinking. I am still trying to find balance and mental peace, restoration and the ability to have a subtle mind. 

My Goals (Spiritually, Physically & Mental Health)

Spiritually, my goal is to continue to study the Bible to gain wisdom as well as learn more about the God who is my “Absolute”.  This goal I believe will help me have peace, love others, be merciful and treat others with the kindness and humility I want to be shown.  Physically, my goal is to lose twenty-five more pounds not just for looks but to gain a sense of physically wellness and relief from knee pain, joint issues and overall self-esteem.  Psychologically, my goal is to set a time (undisturbed no matter what), where I can clear my thoughts, meditate, practice loving –kindness exercises and  have the ability through continued practice, clear harmful thoughts within seconds because of mind strength and make a dedicated exercise plan that clears my mind and detox’s my body.

 Commitment

            To assist with my wellness journey, I have literally removed as much temptation and alluring junk food from my house until my will power and understanding of the damaging effects of the “gooey” stuff no longer lures me.  I know walk at least 3 times a week and have accountability partners to assist me in my physical transition.  

            Spiritually, I continue to pray and meditate on God’s word.  I practice loving kindness and mental wellness by saying prayers for as many of those who cross my path rather friend or foe.  I am striving to remind myself to always be humble, appreciative and grateful for each day and every gift of wellness that has been offered and obtained in my life.  I memorize scriptures and am know trying to verbalize positive affirmations to increase my self-esteem which was at a low in the beginning of my life.

Mentally, I am in school learning how to gain an awareness of holistic health. I take part in beginner meditation classes as well as practice silence and breathing exercises that calm the brain. I continue to invest in education to feed my brain with knowledge and understanding of culture, world events, and human awareness as well as continued studies of social sciences and there subsidiaries.

Respectfully,

Desiree Stroder

Monday, April 21, 2014

Review the exercises and practice sessions you have completed in this course. (Loving Kindness, Subtle mind, Visualization, meditation etc.) Choose two practices that you have determined to be most beneficial. How can you implement these practices in your personal life to foster “mental fitness”? Provide specific examples.

Good Evening Wellness Bloggers,

The two exercises that I have chosen to be most beneficial for my life and mental journey is Meditation and the Loving Kindness exercises.  I chose these because my mind feels like a runaway train running on a shortened track and meditation will allow me to just STOP and calm down these ole ragged thoughts of mine!  As I am learning better meditational methods, I am becoming aware of what my body needs and the importance of just taking a few moments to relax my body, mind and spirit.  To release the stressors and negative thoughts of work and visual assaults that pass my eye gates and focus on nothingness.  As I meditate, hear the sound of my heart beat, watch each breath go in and out I literally feel negative energy seep out, replaced with more clarity and renewed hope of “You got this girl”! 

My meditations involve pray and thanksgiving because I have come to realize that truly I am blessed beyond measure and that my life could always be worse.  It is not, it is a life that I have been given to do wonderful things, awesome feats and he gift of a healthy mind, body and soul to lift and support others.

That brings me to the second exercise which is Loving Kindness.  I want to love others, I want to help others and if I could take the pain away from the child with Cancer, the man with AIDS, my family member with Sickle Cell Anemia I WOULD. . . . Yet, what I can give them is my positive thoughts, my support without fear or worry, my hugs, my joy and my prayers that they WILL be healed in God’s time in His way.   Loving Kindness as I am learning means to give yourself to others with no intention of what they can do for you but out of a freely flowing unselfish heart.  I hope as the years progress I will truly walk what I talk…

Be Blessed,

Desiree Stroder

Monday, April 14, 2014

Meeting Aesclepius


Good Evening Wellness Bloggers,

1.      Complete the Meeting Aesclepius mp3 (located in the Doc Sharing area). Describe your meditative practices for the week and discuss the experience. Explain how mindfulness or meditation has fostered an increase in your psychological or spiritual wellness. How can you continue to apply these practices in your life to foster greater health and wellness?

After listening to the Meeting Aesclepius meditative practice I must say that it was an epic fail for me this week.  Placing no blame on the session, it was ALL my own distraction.  My week was very difficult and physical illness drained much of my ability to focus.  The session did provide some insight on people that I find to have an abundance of wisdom and why I believe them to be wise.  While my thoughts of them were positive, I still could not “become in tuned enough to allow their wisdom and positive flow to become my own.

Secondly, I have come to the realization that listening to a meditative recorded voice is not something that I am comfortable with.  One on one contact would be better suited for the person that I am and the lifestyle that I have.  Psychological and spiritual wellness is a daily practice of mind, body and spirit.  It requires a determined heart and the ability to remove all distraction to become a healed, completely regenerated person.  What these meditative practices have made me aware of is that I am stressed out, unfocused and need a major overhaul of what are considered priorities in my life! 

The practices that I will foster in my life are some counseling, meditation that involves walks in parks and gardens where clean air can flow through my lungs.  Trips to my local beach where I can sit and listen to the waves and think of “nothingness”.  Remove unnecessary stresses and don’t take on the burdens of others but rather give them love and encouragement that can ease and comfort their situation.

2.      Describe the saying: "One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself" (p.477). How does this apply to the health and wellness professional? Do you have an obligation to your clients to be developing your health psychologically, physically, and spiritually? Why or why not? How can you implement psychological and spiritual growth in your personal life?

 

Providers of health care must work on their own spiritual evolution to actually experience what the model represents (p. 476) This simply means that those with your psychological, spiritual and physical health in mine should be able to relate and instruct you on your wholeness journey because they too have experienced and are experiences a transformation that involves a mindset focused on more than just western medicinal practices.   Investing in your overall health means choosing a health care provider that can counsel you with holistic approaches, cares about you as a person, understands your belief system and is more than just a doctor but a friend, confidant and healer.  He/She can be these things because they have walked the journey you are taking and want to walk it with you.  That should be the obligation your wellness professional should desire. 
 
Be blessed,
Desiree Stroder

References:

 

Dacher, E. (2006). Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing. Basic Health Publications, Inc. 
Schlitz, M., Amorok, T., & Micozzi, M. S. (2005). Consciousness & healing: Integral approaches to mind-body medicine. Philadelphia, Pa: Elsevier Churchill Livingstone

Monday, April 7, 2014

Be Well MY Brothers & Sisters

Good Evening Health & Wellness Bloggers,

After reading what the universal Loving Kindness (meditation) exercises was, it was easy to complete.  I believe that those who have a gift for caring and are receptive to the needs of others feel, believe and repeat those positive messages of healing without wavering and faith that individuals in this world rather you know them personally or not will gain freedom from illness, disease and harm.  I don't know who said this but I think it is true that "The heart of the matters are the matters of the heart" (author unknown) I for one, have a heart that wants others to not suffer.

As I stated before, I believe in the power of prayer and often times when I enter into my grandmother’s nursing home, go into a hospital, view a sick and shut in list, see someone walking alone or see a person with a distraught face, I send a prayer of healing and wholeness.  What I have discovered about my self is that I am a little over sensitive in that I want to take away the pain of others at times so much so that I began to feel ill or sadness.  I have to realize that everyone has a cross to bear and that my strength is what they can lean on and a positive assisting attitude.  Being sad and bringing sadness to their situation will not help them and may make it worse.


What I need to focus on more in my life is my biological life. Being raised by a single (very tough disciplinary) yet hard working mother I learned independence early but was missing the nurturing part of the mother-daughter relationship as well as a father-daughter relationship period!  I began to eat an excessive amount of food to cure what ailed my heart but it only made my body toxic.  When I am sad, depressed or lonely eating became my run to.  Even after losing 106 pounds, that issue with self-esteem and body image rears its ugly head and I have to fight hard not to find the nearest honey bun.  I recognize the sources of pain vs. food and now am trying to practice healing eating habits and use exercise and fast walking as my go to source when negative feeling occur. Releasing those negative feelings into the fresh air and out of my body.


Respectfully,
Desiree Stroder